Dandy, you wrote:
Hmm, if labels really are meant for outward appearances only, then may I find a femme who sports whole different attitude! LOL Does such a thing exist?
Yes, such a person or type exists. I do not believe in such labels but if we must use them, then to accurately do so they need only apply to physical appearances b/c we as individuals are too multi-faceted. I once dated such a girl. So yes, your unicorn does exist. I also look femme w/ a few dominant traits (unfortunately, not in the areas you seem to seek). Like I said in a previous reply, I think everyone is a bit femme and butch if we must use labels. But if everyone is a combo, what is the point of such labels? (P.S. If my ex ever becomes available I'll tell her to give you a buzz. But just in case she doesn't, keep looking. I promise you will find her. True love is hard to find, but not impossible.)
"She walks in beauty like the night of cloudless climes and starry skies and all that's best of dark and bright meet in her aspect and her eyes" -Lord Byron