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[Jenniferlynn08]

wow I am not alone in this either and I thought for a moment I was perhaps insane or perhaps something was wrong with me as I do like to look at some. I say some men naked as they do look good but when it comes to myself having a sexual affrair with a man no thanks I prefer a female anyday and feel that i am 100% lesbian yet it is ok in my book to look as long as you don't touch as the thought of having a sexual affair with a man is simply just gross.

[kladdaugh]

Yaoi is a popular form of manga hentai focusing on young gay men, usually one younger and the other older. The fact is that statistically, most everyone is a little bi, but regardless, human beings are sexual, and if you see a human being being sexual, you are probably going to be turned on by it, no matter your sexual preference. It's perfectly okay, and it shouldn't effect your self-view, except as someone who, like the rest of the primates, likes sex.

[Tori_bird]

Yeah, I feel similarly to you guys about the levels of naked I can take with men.
I used to be very butch in high school, and I walked like a boy and talked like one, but I identified as Bi because I wasn't 100% sure about what I was. Now, after I've tried relationships with men (I didn't want to just say "I'm gay" unless I was sure I wasn't into sex with men) I realise that I am able to find a man sexy and be attracted to him on a superficial and pheramone based level...
... but as soon as the pants are off, so am I. A naked man... it just turns me off. I just don't have any interest in men sexualy. Male genitalia is like a kill-switch for my libido.

I still see a cute boy and sometimes want to flirt, and I'm fairly sure I could kiss a boy and be turned on... but it stops there. Pheremones only do so much before reality sets in and you remember WHAT he's got and WHERE he wants it to go.

I've met a lot of people (gay and otherwise) that say that every lesbian has that one guy that they would have sex with, and that might be true, but I've yet to encounter a guy naked that I could stomach the horizontal tango with.

[kladdaugh]

Raychelle_E, on 28 October 2004 - 11:28 PM, said:

I have a question? Okay I like to look at men nude (not at all to the extent of when I was calling myself being straight), I think some are cute hell I've even went to see male strippers with my straight friends. BUT I have absolutly no desire to have a relationship with a man or sleep with a men (I did enjoy the strip show). And with women I pretty much like them 100%. are there any other lesbians on here who have some sort of attraction to men but don't consider themselves bi?

Ray Gay

I have known other lesbians who liked gay porn, Yaoi, and otherwise looking at men. One lesbian friend explained it to me thus, people, human beings are sexual creatures. We're sexy, sexual, and have sex. We find ourselves appealing for sexual reasons and like the aesthetics of our own natural bodies beyond that of pure sexual/romantic preferences. If you ever have the chance, see if you can find a genuine male lesbian (a lot of straight guys claim to be them, but aren't), not necessarily for anything other than talking. It might seem like a weird label, but if you can find one, it might expand what you know about sex, gender, identity, and sexuality.

[kladdaugh]

Jenniferlynn08, on 27 October 2008 - 06:23 AM, said:

wow I am not alone in this either and I thought for a moment I was perhaps insane or perhaps something was wrong with me as I do like to look at some. I say some men naked as they do look good but when it comes to myself having a sexual affrair with a man no thanks I prefer a female anyday and feel that i am 100% lesbian yet it is ok in my book to look as long as you don't touch as the thought of having a sexual affair with a man is simply just gross.

Gross is a harsh word.

Tori_bird, on 02 July 2012 - 10:22 AM, said:

Yeah, I feel similarly to you guys about the levels of naked I can take with men.
I used to be very butch in high school, and I walked like a boy and talked like one, but I identified as Bi because I wasn't 100% sure about what I was. Now, after I've tried relationships with men (I didn't want to just say "I'm gay" unless I was sure I wasn't into sex with men) I realise that I am able to find a man sexy and be attracted to him on a superficial and pheramone based level...
... but as soon as the pants are off, so am I. A naked man... it just turns me off. I just don't have any interest in men sexualy. Male genitalia is like a kill-switch for my libido.

I still see a cute boy and sometimes want to flirt, and I'm fairly sure I could kiss a boy and be turned on... but it stops there. Pheremones only do so much before reality sets in and you remember WHAT he's got and WHERE he wants it to go.

I've met a lot of people (gay and otherwise) that say that every lesbian has that one guy that they would have sex with, and that might be true, but I've yet to encounter a guy naked that I could stomach the horizontal tango with.

You know, it doesn't have to involve penetration. More guys nowadays are into pegging.

[Tori_bird]

Uhhhh... no thanks. He'd have to be naked, so no. =___=;