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4Edited by Elocinaire, 05 April 2012 - 02:47 AM.
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Well in my opinion, "labelling" is for cans. Like everything, Its not bad or good- it could be good and bad. We name everything from direct experience. Its natural. But its the fact that most people would either completely close or limit their knowledge about these things -either because of fear or out of plain arrogance- that upsets me. It makes life harder. Homophobia and the like. So unless I'm really reaaally "forced" or "required" to state where I stand with regards to my sexuality, I'd choose "pansexuality"- or rather "resort" to using it for the lack of any other word and probably to avoid the restrictions and misunderstandings/ stereotyping I'd get if I chose to call myself a bisexual or a lesbian. It still roots and is affected by the culture of the society though. It is more of a belief though that a person falls inlove with the "soul" or whatever-you'd-call-it and not with his/her genitals. So far, I've noticed that I look more into women than men, but I'm not limiting myself though. Because I think that you would never really know what would happen in the future. Fate is a fickle player. So I'm just here to embrace whatever I'm given.
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I identify as Pansexual. I think of myself as a free spirit. If I like you, then I like you. It freaks people out, even some of the people society has deamed as 'freaks'. You would think being attracted to whomever would open up my options but it has actually kind of limited them.
EJ <3
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I'm really glad i seen this post, i had no idea there were so many labels. I myself dont really care for them but for the sake of not wanting to eplain i use them. So in a way they arent that bad, just annoying.
~Mydori~
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I identify as pansexual as well. 
It's a very complicated label, but I think it's the one label that's fits me the most. I honestly don't care whatever you identify yourself with. If I'm attracted to you, then I am attracted to you. Simple as that/ What attracts me most is personality, not what you have between your legs. (Not saying that other orientations care only about the genitalia, just saying that I don't).
Even now we're still being discriminated, and I find it rather sad.
It's a very complicated label, but I think it's the one label that's fits me the most. I honestly don't care whatever you identify yourself with. If I'm attracted to you, then I am attracted to you. Simple as that/ What attracts me most is personality, not what you have between your legs. (Not saying that other orientations care only about the genitalia, just saying that I don't). Even now we're still being discriminated, and I find it rather sad.
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