This is the area on Lesbotronic for those who have ALREADY
FILLED OUT THE COMPLETE PROFILE to update that profile,
based on change of life circumstance, geographic location,
relationship desires, etc. If you have NOT already filled out
the complete profile, this form is NOT for you, please click on
the "JOIN" button above and go there instead.
If you have NOT already filled out the complete profile,
OR you fill out this edit form with a different email address
than what you were last using with us, we're just going to
email you back telling you so. Waste of time for everyone, right? :)
Please also note that the questions below are the ONLY
ones used for matching or exclusion.
That's why they are on the updating form.
Really, the other questions on the profile are mostly personality-based,
so it would be a little odd if you needed to change those on A REGULAR basis . . .
we believe the matching questions are really the only ones most folks
would need to alter periodically.
But if you've changed so much since the last profile you submitted and
really really do need to change some of your other answers
(the ones NOT on this form), the only way to do that is to fill out a
entirely fresh brand spanky new profile (which is probably best anyway given
your own metamorphosis).
To do that hit the "JOIN" button above, then fill that one out again,
using the same email address you were last using with us.
Please do try very hard to use the same email address,
this way your new profile will replace your old and you won't be duplicated.

But for the form below, you do not have to fill out all the questions.
You must fill out the first 2 questions re: email address, then fill
out whatever you would like changed, then hit the submit button.
If you submit this form but leave some questions unanswered,
whatever you indicated in your original profile will remain your
answer for that question.
The last (or original, if you haven't changed it)
email address you were using with Lesbotronic:
REQUIRED
Now please CONFIRM your email address by retyping it below

OR, if you want to use a NEW email address with us,
type THAT address below instead.

 
(Please remember that you are responsible for making
sure any "spam controls" or mail restrictions are
configured to allow email from lesbotronic.com)
Your new age range (if applicable)?
THIS SERVICE IS NOT INTENDED FOR ANYONE UNDER THE AGE OF 18.
Your new city (if applicable)?
 (PLEASE NOTE: If you do not actually live in one of these cities,
you must select the nearest one to you.
Feel free to be more specific re: your actual location
in your freetext area below.)
UNITED STATES: States are in alphabetical order,
scroll to your state, then select your city or closest to it.
CANADA: Canadian provinces are after U.S. states,
scroll past the U.S., find your province, then select
your city or closest to it.
AUSTRALIA: Australian states are after the U.S. and Canada,
scroll past both, find your state, then select your city or closest to it.
NEW ZEALAND: New Zealand's Islands are after the
U.S., Canada, and Australia, scroll past those,
find your Island, then select your city or closest to it.
EUROPE: Many European countries are after the U.S., Canada,
Australia, and New Zealand, scroll past those, find your country,
then select your city or closest to it.
(please note that many cities display a lack of proper accent marks
because those display as "nonsense characters" in many browsers)
Your new educational status (if applicable)?
Your new relationship status (if applicable)?
Your new gender identification (if applicable)?
Your new gender identity preference for matches
you receive (if applicable)?
With regard to ethnicity, you now prefer to hear from other
women who identify as . . .
any ethnicity is fine
(all boxes below, checking the ethnicity boxes below has no impact)
only these ethnicities
(to restrict on ethnicity, you must check this button
then pick the ones that interest you below)
Please note that for "only these ethnicities" if you check that
then check some of the boxes below those selections will replace
ALL of your previous ethnicity(s). For example, if for your original
profile you checked "White . . " and this time you check only
"Black . . .," you will from now on ONLY be matched with
"Black . . . " So if you answer this question, indicate
ALL of the ethnicities that currently interest you.
White/Anglo/Caucasian/European-American
Black/African/African-American
Hispanic/Latino
Asian
Native-American
Middle-Eastern
Pacific-Islander
Multiracial and/or I'm just too diverse to say
What age ranges now interest you (if there's been a change)?
Please note that for this question, IF you check anything below,
that selection/group of selections will replace ALL of your previous
age range(s). For example, if for your original profile you checked
26-31 and this time you check only 32-38, you will then ONLY
be matched with women 32-38.
So if you answer this question, indicate
ALL of the ranges that interest you.
18-21
22-25
26-31
32-38
39-46
47-55
56-62
63-70
71- On Golden Pond
Your new geographic area preference for matches you
receive (if changing)?
1) I only want to hear from women in the urban area I selected above.
2) I'd prefer to keep my Lesbotronic matches relatively local,
but I'm open to the other cities in my state or province.
3) I'm open to hearing from women in my state AND the
rest of the women in my zone.
(If you'd like to determine your "zone" for #3,
click here for a pop up window describing that.)
ATTENTION: #3 above will probably result in
quite a few matches being sent initially,
unless your other exclusion criteria
were very narrow or you live in a less
populated area.
Please be sure you want option #3 if you select it,
and please make sure your email inbox
has plenty of space.
We do NOT recommend this option
for most subscribers.
What sort of new relationship are you looking for?
Please note that for this question, if you answer it, it will replace
ALL of the previous ways you said you'd like to be hooked up.
For example, if for your original profile you checked "pen pal/e-mail friend"
and "one night stand," and this time you check
"Long-term commitment/marriage/spousal equivalency"
you will from now on ONLY be registered as interested in
"Long-term commitment/marriage/spousal equivalency."
So if you answer this question, indicate ALL of your interests.
Discreet but sexy (casual intentions)
Pen pal/E-mail friend
Polyamorous  (more than casual but not sexually exclusive)
One-night stand
Non-sexual activity partner/platonic friend
Long-term commitment/marriage/spousal equivalency
Your preference for the educational status of the matches
you receive (if changing)?
I am open to hearing from women currently in another sexual
relationship.
(If changing, select yes if you are interested in meeting women
to be "just friends," or interested in meeting
non-monogamous women.
If you are NOT interested in either of those things, select no.)
Yes.
No.
While we understand that personal definitions of
sexual orientation change over time for many,
please pick the best description for you right
now (if changing).
(for purposes of this question "man" = male assigned at birth)
For this question you only select ONE.
I consider myself a lesbian.
I do not have sex with men currently,
and think it extremely unlikely I will in the future.
I am primarily attracted to women,
and my serious relationships are mostly with women.
However, I wouldn't completely rule out
a relationship with a man in the future.
I consider myself bisexual, and open
to the possibility of a serious, longer-term relationship
with a woman OR a man.
It's more about whoever attracts me next
than a priority given to either gender.
I'm in a serious relationship with a man,
and am looking for a bisexual woman to be
sexually active with both of us.
I would like to explore relationship(s) with women,
but I expect my primary relationship to be with a man.
Any relationship(s) with women would be separate
and 'on the side.'
Completely polyamorous AND bisexual.
I will continue seeking sexual involvements with BOTH
men and women. I'm happiest when currently involved
in multiple relationships with both genders represented.
Now, please check off who you are willing to hear from
in terms of the options above.
Please note that for this question, IF you answer again,
it will replace ALL of your previous choices(s). For example,
if for your original profile you checked that you were interested in
getting matched with those that said "I consider myself a lesbian . . "
and this time you check only "I am primarily attracted to women . . .,"
you will then ONLY be matched with "I am primarily attracted to women
. . . "
So if you answer this question, indicate
ALL of the options that interest you.
I consider myself a lesbian.
I do not have sex with men currently,
and think it extremely unlikely I will in the future.
I am primarily attracted to women,
and my serious relationships are mostly with women.
However, I wouldn't completely rule out
a relationship with a man in the future.
I consider myself bisexual, and open to
the possibility of a serious, longer-term relationship
with a woman OR a man.
It's more about whoever attracts me next
than a priority given to either gender.
I'm in a serious relationship with a man,
and am looking for a bisexual woman to be
sexually active with both of us.
I would like to explore relationship(s) with women,
but I expect my primary relationship to be with a man.
Any relationship(s) with women would be separate
and 'on the side.'
Completely polyamorous AND bisexual.
I will continue seeking sexual involvements with BOTH
men and women. I'm happiest when currently involved
in multiple relationships with both/all genders represented.
Your transgender status (if changing)?
With regard to transgendered status,
I am open to hearing from matches that say they are . . .
(check as many as you like)
Please note that for this question, IF you answer again,
it will replace ALL of your previous choices(s).
For example, if for your original profile you checked you were
open to hearing from "(female (assigned female at birth)" and
this time you check only "female (male to female transsexual/transgender)"
you will from then on ONLY be matched with "female (male to female
transsexual/transgender)."
So if you answer this question, indicate
ALL of the options that interest you.
female (assigned female at birth)
female (male to female transsexual/transgender)
male (female to male transsexual/transgender)
serious gender bender/crossdresser but NOT in the process of or seriously contemplating full-time transition
FREETEXT AREA!
You are not required to answer this, but if you do, it
will replace whatever you had there previously.

HTML coding, extra carriage returns/line breaks and/or graphics
will be deleted. Please do not attempt to insert anything other than text.
(THE FREETEXT AREA IS NOT USED IN THE MATCHING PROCESS.)
If you've made a MAJOR change to your profile
(relationship status, different type of relationship desired, you moved)
such that the new matches you might receive are likely to be entirely
different from the ones you received before, you may be "rematched"
as if your profile was new regardless of your answer to this.

HOWEVER, for those making more minor changes do you . . .
Just want these changes to apply to matches henceforth
(folks arriving in the future),
no one who has already entered the database will be resent
Want these changes to apply to matches henceforth AND RESEND ME
all current matches still in the database that match my new criteria
(depending on what you picked, this MIGHT cause you to receive
some of the same folks again)

(If you choose this option PLEASE make sure your inbox has LOTS of space)

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