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Lesbotronic Community GuidelinesCHANGED SEPTEMBER 2006: PLEASE REVIEW BEFORE POSTINGThese are our thoughts on the maintenance of a friendly lesbian/bi/trans/queer female community. They're really extremely reasonable. If you violate them you risk deletion. Let's not, alrighty? |
1 | 1 | Thu Aug 12, 2004 11:47 pm Lesbotronic Webmistresses  |
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Frequently Asked Questions (re: our lesbian personals and this forum)Many questions answered including:I SIGNED UP FOR THE PERSONALS, BUT I CAN'T SIGN IN HERE?!?!??! Please read if you have questions before asking them anywhere else. |
25 | 25 | Wed Dec 07, 2005 5:48 pm Lesbotronic Webmistresses |
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I'm not getting my personal ad matches and/or email from this forum!!Ack, we've been SPAM-blocked! We assume due to paranoia some email providers experience around the word "lesbian," since we'd never commit that particular 4-letter word. Please follow instructions within to ensure you get your personal ad matches and/or any requested email from this forum . . . |
1 | 1 | Mon Aug 02, 2004 12:07 pm Lesbotronic Webmistresses |
The Photo Area |
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The PhotosPersonal ad member photos within. |
246 | 1127 | Thu May 15, 2008 7:16 pm purchgirl |
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The Instructions (How to Post Your Photo) |
5 | 12 | Tue Apr 25, 2006 3:27 pm Lesbotronic Webmistresses |
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The Help Desk (Everyone Asked to Participate)Please ask technical questions here. We encourage those with questions AND those with answers to post here. |
29 | 79 | Sun Dec 30, 2007 1:21 pm Lesbotronic Webmistresses |
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Privacy, Personal Photos, & the Lesbian-Specific Internet |
1 | 1 | Thu Jun 10, 2004 7:00 pm Lesbotronic Webmistresses |
Lesbotronic's ALL ACCESS AREA Discussion |
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MORONS! MORONS! MORONS!Check this out. |
4 | 31 | Mon May 05, 2008 12:40 am Lesbian Movie Scene |
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Member IntroductionsJust a place to talk about yourself, wave hello to other members. |
605 | 1061 | Thu May 15, 2008 7:43 pm purchgirl |
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Meeting New Women, Flirting 'Em UpWhat sort of places do you go (other than lesbotronic :) ) to meet lesbian /gay/bi/queer/insert-preferred-label-here women, how do you pick a "target," what do you do? (Please note: This forum is ABOUT the subject OF meeting new women and flirting. It's not the place to say, 'Hi, I'm here, flirt with me.' However, you could do that in your Member Intro, if you liked. ;)) |
41 | 216 | Thu May 15, 2008 7:46 pm purchgirl |
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BEST PLACES for Lesbians (and those that love them)Recommend your favorite LOCAL haunts to other members, where to go when folks are in your town, etc. Locale-specific ?'s and event announcements go here too. (For general purpose non-expiring longer-term stuff, please see if whatever city already has a thread going and reply to that rather than starting another fresh one. Time-limited event announcements should have their own thread with a subject line worded as specifically as possible (where/when/what, etc.)) |
68 | 169 | Sun Apr 27, 2008 5:35 pm nicole5809 |
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Monogamy vs. Non-Monogamy and/or PolyamorySerial monogamy vs. anything else, especially within the lesbian community. Making it work vs. watching it implode. |
7 | 74 | Thu May 08, 2008 9:38 pm adrienne.b |
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Lesbian/Gay WeddingsCommitment ceremonies vs. state-sanctioned marriages vs. ... not. |
3 | 36 | Sat Mar 29, 2008 7:48 pm calisunshine |
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Butch & FemmeAdore these labels some use within the lesbian community? Despise them? Simply shrug your shoulders? Discuss? |
23 | 249 | Sun May 11, 2008 11:56 am hopefulhousewife |
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Sexual Identities (Lesbian/Dyke/Homo/Bi/Omnisexual/Pansexual/Queer/Trans)What have you 'come out' as? Has your thinking about your identity changed over time? |
17 | 143 | Sun Mar 02, 2008 1:17 am Amathyst |
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Spirituality/Religiosity and/or Being Lesbian/QueerYou must read the announcement in this forum before posting here. |
8 | 30 | Sun May 11, 2008 4:09 am whitelder |
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Famous Lesbians / Celebrity GossipWhat well-known women turn your crank? Are they . . . or aren't they? |
9 | 82 | Mon May 05, 2008 10:56 pm SweetOnHer |
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The Lesbian BookwormBooks you like that reference the lesbian experience . . . your feelings about lesbian literature . . . specific articles you'd like to point us all toward . .. whatever! |
9 | 69 | Wed Apr 09, 2008 10:54 am rekcut |
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Lesbians in the Media/News/Movies/TVWhat portrayals have you recently seen? Did you applaud or cringe? How well are we being represented lately? |
17 | 51 | Tue Feb 05, 2008 12:41 am LivvyB |
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Transgender/Transsexual IssuesDeciding to transition, changes during, telling other people, how to be an ally to a trans-person. |
13 | 118 | Mon Nov 12, 2007 10:51 pm ZoZoHarle |
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Queer Politics / Political Thought within the Lesbian or Queer CommunityIssues, politics, news, elected officials, causes, etc. |
15 | 55 | Sat Dec 22, 2007 2:56 pm celeste |
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Coming Out / HomophobiaHave you had to 'come out' multiple times, or with more than one identity? What were your hopes/fears? Did they come true? |
22 | 106 | Sun Apr 27, 2008 5:42 pm nicole5809 |
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Body Talk / Body Issues within the Lesbian/Bi/Queer/Trans CommunitySize, shape, food, skin, health issues, work, hair, sex, changes, eating, play, culture, aging, judgment, modification, style, dis/abilities, in/visibility, in/accessibility ... or what did we leave out? Topics can be dealt with as both inside and outside the "lesbian community." |
16 | 220 | Thu May 08, 2008 7:59 pm ashleigh |
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Negotiating RelationshipsNegotiating anger, jealousy, personal growth, betrayal, boundaries, communication, personal space, dealing with the friends and family of the other, finding social support when you are NOT looking for new "dates" (or whatever), whatever else may be your issue(s). Personal story to share? Advice to ask for or give? Step right up. |
27 | 143 | Fri Dec 07, 2007 1:01 pm jennytx |
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Relationship DealbreakersSome folks confine their concerns to felony convictions and illegal drug addictions, while others get annoyed if a date ends a sentence with a preposition. Do YOU have any that are relatively specific? Have you ever rejected or been rejected over something a lot of folks find insignificant? Share and compare. |
2 | 7 | Wed Apr 09, 2008 2:02 pm ashleigh |
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Dating DisastrouslyEver been on a date that started reasonably enough with a reasonable-seeming person . . . but then (insert horror movie music here). Could be a first date or something that went horribly awry in an ongoing relationship. Disaster daters can share the quirky, the disturbing, or the certifiably disturbed. Others can share support or survival tips. |
2 | 5 | Sun Jun 17, 2007 8:44 pm atom |
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Issues Specific to Lesbian / Queer Women of ColorThe intersection of race, gender, and sexual orientation - living in society (queer and otherwise) as a queer woman of color. |
14 | 126 | Sat Apr 05, 2008 4:23 pm oxymrncparadx88 |
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Older & WiserYes, age IS just a number, but as our number increases hopefully we learn a few things along the way. Here's a forum in which the O&W can commune. Possibly also a place spring chickens can request some sage advice from those who have been around the "lesbian block" a few times? You decide! (How old is "older?" We won't define that for you, you'll have to self-select. ;-) ) |
26 | 135 | Sat May 03, 2008 8:58 pm doobie |
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Our Fabulous Furry FriendsDo lesbians REALLY have too many cats? Or is that a contradiction in terms? (but all genres of pet welcome!) |
13 | 78 | Sun May 11, 2008 4:24 am whitelder |
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Having and/or Raising KidsThe struggles and the joys of being a queer parent, both within the lesbian community and without. Share your experiences, your advice, or resources you've found. |
4 | 34 | Mon Jan 14, 2008 7:15 pm Cecily |
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'Tis the Season to Feel Stressed OutNo matter your personal beliefs or degree of investment in the holiday season(s), it can be a stressful time. Some say even more than average for queers. If you're "out" you may suffer from familial judgments on your "lifestyle," if you're not, you might have to field nosy questions or "straighten up" your house. Share the pathos and support each other here. |
6 | 32 | Sun Nov 11, 2007 6:22 pm ashleigh |
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The 'Water Cooler'Random, OFF-topic stuff . . . anything you'd like to share or discuss that is NOT relevant to one of the other topics already listed above ... a joke, a random problem, something odd you saw today ... |
36 | 277 | Mon May 05, 2008 7:23 am loneeagle6 |
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In Person, Face to Face, Geographically Local Groups for Lesbians (and/or those that love them)New area added upon request, but please read *before* posting. This is an area apart from BEST PLACES for Lesbians (local PUBLIC haunts and/or businesses members recommend) AND apart from the TIME-LIMITED event announcements also appropriate in that area (which remains above).This is ONLY to announce in-person social, activity, or support groups for and/or including queer women in a particular local area. These groups would at least potentially be ongoing, yours could get together for . . . whatever you like. Posts may describe previously established groups that need new members OR a group you'd like to start if you generate enough interest. Examples: Dykes Playing Poker Every Other Saturday Night in Seattle, Queer Knitting Fiends in Phoenix, Lesbians with Little Kids in Los Angeles. Posts should also conform to the following: 1) Should go without saying, but if your group doesn't want new members, don't post about it here. If your group stops desiring new members, let Lesbotronic know and we'll take down your post. 2) If there are criteria or membership requirements for joining the group, make those clear in your post. Don't make someone contact you just to find out they don't "qualify" for previously unstated reasons. 3) Leave enough and current info either in your post or your profile for interested parties to contact you. We recommend using the email address associated with your profile or a URL (if you have one). We do NOT recommend posting a phone number, you can give that to interested parties privately after initial contact. 4) If you're not in charge of the group, you have the O.K. from whomever(s) to advertise it here. (If you don't, please get permission first or tell them to post about it themselves.) 5) Unless we say otherwise in a particular posting, Lesbotronic is not responsible for nor do we necessarily know anything about any group mentioned. Questions re: any group need to go to whoever posted the info. 6) Please title your post with both the geographical area/city in question and something about what it is, so folks will know if they want to click. |
5 | 10 | Thu May 15, 2008 5:25 pm NeicionoNug |
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Suggestions for Lesbotronic's WebmistressesNEW FORUM TOPICS . . . ways to make the forum better . . . whatever! |
23 | 87 | Sun Nov 04, 2007 2:44 pm Targa65 |
Lesbotronic's RESTRICTED ACCESS AREA (still 100% free, but more private and by approval only) |
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More info on our Restricted Access Area (restricted, but NOT something that costs money, still 100% free)This area of the forum is only for that subset of All Access forum members to whom we grant additional and specific access. It is entirely private, in that no non-admitted member can access it, read it, post within it, etc., nor will it be indexed by search engines. Conversations in here are more private in that they can only take place between and/or be accessed by other members specifically admitted to the Restricted Access part of the forum. If you don't see a bunch of topics below this one, you're not admitted. If you do, you are. If you want access, you'll have to click here and read further.BIG IMPORTANT TIP: YOU MUST BE BOTH GRANTED ACCESS -----and----- LOGGED INTO THE FORUM TO ACCESS THIS AREA. If you've browsed by but are NOT logged in, you won't know. Log in first. |
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