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1. HOW TO: Lesbotronic + Zombie Purge + Latest Upgrade
  
  Recommended reading.
  
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  - By lesbotronic, April 13
2. The GoATs! (Greatest of All Time (by member vote))
  
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  - The GoATs! (Greatest of All Time (by member vote))
  - By lesbotronic, July 31, 2021
3. Lesbians are scandalized! And stigmatized! Yet . . . still sultry AF?!?
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  - "The straight male world has convinced young women the l word is a slur."
  - By Geekomatic, April 7
4. No longer into "gender," no thank you.
  
  Please read the moderation post first. But up here as a reminder, it's only this forum that's moderated for everybody for now, and the rest might make more sense in order too. :)
  
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  - "Do you think drag queens should perform for minor children?"
  - By keltheimpossible, Tuesday at 10:30 PM
5. THE POLLS: Lesbians: How DO they behave, anyway?
  
  ALL STILL IN PROGRESS and awaiting YOUR vote (whichever ones you didn't already)!
  
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  - PETS!
  - By mariesa, 5 hours ago
6. Member Introductions
  
  Talking about yourself via posting your Member Introduction is awesome, but for optimum social success, don't stop there. You're most likely to interest other members when you add your two cents to one of their already ongoing conversations.
  
  Please title member introductions with both your location (can be very general) and one other thing you'd like members to know.
  
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  - Greetings!
  - By Geekomatic, April 14
7. Lesbians in the Media/News/Movies/TV
  
  What portrayals have you seen? Did you applaud or cringe? How well are we being represented?
  
  (We previously separated topics by medium (film/TV vs. books, etc.), but after members shared their own art too, we think "in the media" vs. "my own" makes more sense now. So now this section vs. "Member-Created Art," where you're encouraged to share your own stuff. :)
  
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  - Netflix Special-The Ultimatum ( Liked or Disliked )
  - By lesbotronic, August 8
8. Member-Created Art
  
  This is a place for you to share your artistic creations: writing, crafts, poetry, prose, paintings, photography, sculpture, knitting projects, fanfics, etc., include all art forms and mediums here.
  
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  - LEGO Lesbians #002 Dorothy Arzner
  - By Thelxiope1, March 25
9. Recipes and Food Recommendations
  
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  - Covid put me back in the kitchen with new ideas for meals
  - By Geekomatic, December 20, 2022
10. The Personals Side of Lesbotronic: Perplexing Profiles, Cans of Worms
  
  We've experienced some "gray area" ethical and interpersonal dilemmas here, and we've decided to put them out to the community for feedback.
  
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  - How Long Until You Meet the "Right" Lesbian(s) for You: A Formula?
  - By Dani28, July 7, 2021
11. Lesbian Bars: What's Happening?
  
  (plus, we're going to try to keep an ongoing list, please help!)
  
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  - lesbian bars: the list
  - By lesbotronic, August 31, 2022
12. Politics / Political Thought within the Lesbian Community
  
  Issues, politics, news, elected officials, causes, etc.
  
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  - International Lesbian Visibility Day
  - By rachel154, April 28
13. Issues Specific to Lesbian Women of Color
  
  The intersection of race, biological sex, and sexual orientation - living in mostly heterosexual society as a lesbian woman of color.
  
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  - Camping or "Off Grid" living.
  - By Blaquelorelei, April 14
14. Negotiating Relationships
  
  Negotiating anger, jealousy, monogamy vs. non-monogamy vs. polyamory, personal growth, betrayal, boundaries, communication, personal space, dealing with the friends and family of the other, finding social support when you are NOT looking for new "dates" (or whatever), whatever else may be your issue(s). Personal story to share? Advice to ask for or give? Let's have it. :)
  
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  - How Common and Simple is Compatibility?
  - By ashleigh, August 29
15. Dating Disastrously
  
  Ever been on a date that started reasonably enough with a reasonable-seeming person . . . but then (insert horror movie music here). Could be a first date or something that went horribly awry in an ongoing relationship. Disaster daters can share the quirky, the disturbing, or the certifiably disturbed. Others can share support or survival tips.
  
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  - Total disaster date I had
  - By starkles66, April 17
16. Relationship Dealbreakers
  
  Some folks confine their concerns to felony convictions and illegal drug addictions, while others get annoyed if a date ends a sentence with a preposition. Do YOU have any that are relatively specific? Have you ever rejected or been rejected over something a lot of folks find insignificant? Share and compare.
  
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  - Would lesbians date bisexual women?
  - By lesbotronic, May 30, 2019
17. Butch & Femme
  
  Adore these labels some use within the lesbian community? Despise them? Simply shrug your shoulders? Discuss?
  
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  - Does Assertiveness = Butch?
  - By Dell, October 17, 2016
18. Spirituality/Religiosity and Lesbians
  
  You must read the announcement in this forum before posting here.
  
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  - POSTING IN THE SPIRITUALITY FORUM (MUST READ BEFORE POSTING)
  - By Desibt, August 30, 2022
19. Famous Lesbians / Celebrity Gossip
  
  What well-known women turn your crank? Are they . . . or aren't they?
  
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  - Portia leaves Ellen for a man???
  - By Geekomatic, October 18, 2017
20. Coming Out / Homophobia
  
  Have you had to 'come out' multiple times? What were your hopes/fears? Did they come true?
  
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  - Does anyone have any regrets?
  - By Agent66, May 8, 2020
21. Older & Wiser
  
  Yes, age IS just a number, but as our number increases hopefully we learn a few things along the way. Here's a forum in which the O&W can commune. Possibly also a place spring chickens can request some sage advice from those who have been around the "lesbian block" a few times? You decide! (How old is "older?" We won't define that for you, you'll have to self-select (grin). )
  
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  - Age is a number... Attitude is key so is respect.
  - By Joyletta, September 14
22. Our Fabulous Furry Friends
  
  Do lesbians REALLY have too many cats? Or is that a contradiction in terms? (but all genres of pet welcome!)
  
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  - SO Tempting to Make a Furry Post here.....
  - By ashleigh, July 22, 2020
23. Parenting
  
  The struggles and the joys of being a parent, both within the lesbian community and without. Share your experiences, your advice, or resources you've found.
  
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  - Would you date a single mom?
  - By Geekomatic, April 7
24. Meeting New Women, Flirting 'Em Up
  
  What sort of places do you go (other than lesbotronic) to meet lesbians, how do you pick a "target," what do you do?
  
  (Please note: This forum is ABOUT the subject OF meeting new women and flirting. If you just want to introduce YOURSELF, you do that in Member Introductions.)
  
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  - Why are lesbians turned off by bisexual women?
  - By lesbotronic, May 30, 2019
25. BEST PLACES for Lesbians (and those that love them)
  
  Recommend your favorite LOCAL haunts to other members, where to go when folks are in your town, etc. Locale-specific ?'s and event announcements go here too. (For general purpose non-expiring longer-term stuff, please see if whatever city already has a thread going and reply to that rather than starting another fresh one. Time-limited event announcements should have their own thread with a subject line worded as specifically as possible (where/when/what, etc.))
  
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  - Southwest England (or UK in general!)--looking to invest in women-owned living space
  - By Talleyrand, April 14
26. In Person, Face to Face, Geographically Local Groups for Lesbians (and/or those that love them)
  
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  - Puerto Rico anyone? I'm here :) In paradise...
  - By Marla8888, March 4
27. Body Talk / Body Issues within the Lesbian Community
  
  Size, shape, food, skin, health issues, work, hair, sex, changes, eating, play, culture, aging, judgment, modification, style, clothing, dis/abilities, in/visibility, in/accessibility ... or what did we leave out? Topics can be dealt with as both inside and outside the "lesbian community."
  
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  - Tattoos and piercings?
  - By MorningDarling, December 2, 2022
28. Sexual Labels
  
  What have you 'come out' as? Have your thoughts about sexual labels changed over time?
  
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  - NATURE OR DAMAGE- WHY ARE WE GAY?
  - By Sammy Lynne, April 15
29. The 'Water Cooler'
  
  Random stuff . . . anything you'd like to share or discuss that doesn't particularly fit into the topics above ... a joke, a random problem, your personal life, something odd you saw today ...
  
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  - Mourning Lost Community And Finding New Connections
  - By keltheimpossible, August 10

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