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Andreja

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How long do you wait?

I've been speaking with someone for some time and I am wondering when I should ask for like an email address? I do really like her. She seems like a person I'd definitely be friends with and could see myself with. She's now out of college and has more free time on her hands (for the most part). I don't want to say i want to hurry a relationship, but part of me is wanting to have some validation that she really is who she is so that I can do one of two things: try to pursue a relationship with her or end it and try and find someone else.

And other question I have... Is it bad that I have put people's photos through Google Image search to see if they are real? I did this with the aforementioned person and she seems like she is a real person. I didn't get a facebook page, but i'm glad I actually didn't get that.

I somedays wish my own advice worked for me. Not sure why it doesn't exactly. Maybe I'm doing something wrong?

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Honestly, these are things to bring up with the person, but try to do it in the softest way possible. If they accept your nervousness then it's more likely that they're real. Maybe arrange to meet them in public at some point if you really want to find out? If they get all defensive then they could be fake, or they could just have gotten this too much, hence why it's a good idea to be soft about it, like mentioning that you think that they're neat or bringing up what it would be like to be in a room with them, sooner or later bringing up that you're nervous about actually meeting them.

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